Confronting a Cyber-Bully

Confrontation is an important part of stopping the cycle of cyber-bullying. This is obviously easier when the bully is known to the victim. There are three typical reactions when confontation takes place:

Denial

Retaliation

Victimhood

To find out more about these and how to effectively confront a cyber-bully, click here.

Why Cyber-Bullying is Never Alright

Cyber-bullying exists on a spectrum ranging from mild to extreme. Many people try and shrug it off, not wanting to make a big deal of it. In reality, cyber-bullying is a big deal and should never be tolerated in any form. Here are some links to articles on cyber-bullying that may prove helpful:

Cyber-Bullying and the Law

How Cyber-Bullies Respond to Confrontation

Six Types of Cyber-Bullies

The Emotional Impact of Cyber-Bullying

Understanding Cyberstalking and Bullying

Update on Cyber-Bullying is Never Alright

Cyber-Bullying is Never Alright is reaching its target audience. Orders have been sent to schools and libraries around New Zealand, and print and Kindle copies have sold through Amazon.com.

Aimed at teenagers but suitable for any age group, the book gives examples of cyber-bullying as well as practical advice on how to handle the problem. As people become more and more connected in cyberspace, it is essential to be prepared for this type of attack. While it is common to hide the abuse and feel ashamed and humiliated, it is never alright to be bullied. This book will help you to work out a plan of action and pursue it.

Cyber-Bullies are Cowards

Bullies are cowards and cyber-bullies even more so. They hide behind technology, screens, cell phones and fake profiles. Because they don't see the immediate reaction to their cruel words, they say things they would be unlikely to say face to face. Click here to read more about cyber-cowards and the best way to handle them.